Another week has ended and once again we have entered into another weekend to rest and revitalize ourselves. Since my folks are currently on their holiday, I have been left with the responsibility of handling various tasks in our office, while still running my own marketing firm. It’s not really as hectic as my Dad has a solid team of people who pretty much can run things temporarily while he’s out. All I do is just do some basic checking and see if there’s anything needed to be signed or cleared.
While I was having dinner earlier, I suddenly felt alone (my sister came home late, so I went and ate without her). The alone I felt wasn’t sad at all, but rather calm and peaceful. And I thought if my daily life would be like this, it would be kinda boring after awhile. A home really needs a family and people to make it feel alive, else it would be just another house.
Being in the contemplative mood, I also wondered if I will ever get married in this lifetime. I’m not being dramatic and I’ve said it all along, that if possible I want to get married early like before I reach 28-29. I am currently closing in at 26 and the chances look bleak. Anyway, I’m not really the type who dwells on such things much, it’s just that of late there’s been so many wedding proposals. I’m getting quite sick of them really, I think due to so many proposals happening around me, I feel that it’s becoming a bit of an overkill. At least I can count on getting a couple of nice, free meals from all the wedding receptions I’ll be attending from now till 2010. Currently, most weddings are scheduled only up till 2010, maybe next year I’ll get more invites for post-2010 weddings.
On other news, the weather today is hot and humid. I do find it quite odd, usually once October comes in the weather usually cools down. Global warming and environemental changes must be really starting to kick in. Also, because of the current weather, it seems like Christmas season hasn’t kicked it yet. I mean, this is the Philippines and we treat Christmas like a long await event. Usually once the ‘ber months kick in, people quickly associate it as the start of Christmas. It is now nearing the end of October and I have yet to feel the ’spirit’. Maybe it’s not just the weather, the economy has been pretty steady but definitely been affected by the number of local and international crisis we have experienced the past decade or more. People might be spending less (though I doubt it), they probably have just less to spend so many being all Christmas-y isn’t the best way to go.
I don’t know, maybe it’s because I am older now or maybe it’s different times we live in now, but Christmas doesn’t seem to be the same as before. It felt so vibrant and alive back then. I couldn’t wait for Christmas when I was a kid and even though we weren’t doing as well, we were happy living within our means. I didn’t need expensive gifts or extravagant decorations, all I needed was that Christmas was a time where we could spend time together as a family and with our immediate families. This is funny coming from a guy who doesn’t believe in Christianity and yet is a baptized and confirmed member of the Catholic church. I don’t need those complications to enjoy Christmas, because for me Christmas always meant about bringing our families together.
I wanted to discuss some current issues which might affect certain industries in the Philippines which are giving so much to our local economy, but perhaps I shall do it in another post.
