Posts Tagged 'family'

End Of Another Week

Another week has ended and once again we have entered into another weekend to rest and revitalize ourselves. Since my folks are currently on their holiday, I have been left with the responsibility of handling various tasks in our office, while still running my own marketing firm. It’s not really as hectic as my Dad has a solid team of people who pretty much can run things temporarily while he’s out. All I do is just do some basic checking and see if there’s anything needed to be signed or cleared.

While I was having dinner earlier, I suddenly felt alone (my sister came home late, so I went and ate without her). The alone I felt wasn’t sad at all, but rather calm and peaceful. And I thought if my daily life would be like this, it would be kinda boring after awhile. A home really needs a family and people to make it feel alive, else it would be just another house.

Being in the contemplative mood, I also wondered if I will ever get married in this lifetime. I’m not being dramatic and I’ve said it all along, that if possible I want to get married early like before I reach 28-29. I am currently closing in at 26 and the chances look bleak. Anyway, I’m not really the type who dwells on such things much, it’s just that of late there’s been so many wedding proposals. I’m getting quite sick of them really, I think due to so many proposals happening around me, I feel that it’s becoming a bit of an overkill. At least I can count on getting a couple of nice, free meals from all the wedding receptions I’ll be attending from now till 2010. Currently, most weddings are scheduled only up till 2010, maybe next year I’ll get more invites for post-2010 weddings.

On other news, the weather today is hot and humid. I do find it quite odd, usually once October comes in the weather usually cools down. Global warming and environemental changes must be really starting to kick in. Also, because of the current weather, it seems like Christmas season hasn’t kicked it yet. I mean, this is the Philippines and we treat Christmas like a long await event. Usually once the ‘ber months kick in, people quickly associate it as the start of Christmas. It is now nearing the end of October and I have yet to feel the ’spirit’.  Maybe it’s not just the weather, the economy has been pretty steady but definitely been affected by the number of local and international crisis we have experienced the past decade or more. People might be spending less (though I doubt it), they probably have just less to spend so many being all Christmas-y isn’t the best way to go.

I don’t know, maybe it’s because I am older now or maybe it’s different times we live in now, but Christmas doesn’t seem to be the same as before. It felt so vibrant and alive back then. I couldn’t wait for Christmas when I was a kid and even though we weren’t doing as well, we were happy living within our means. I didn’t need expensive gifts or extravagant decorations, all I needed was that Christmas was a time where we could spend time together as a family and with our immediate families. This is funny coming from a guy who doesn’t believe in Christianity and yet is a baptized and confirmed member of the Catholic church. I don’t need those complications to enjoy Christmas, because for me Christmas always meant about bringing our families together.

I wanted to discuss some current issues which might affect certain industries in the Philippines which are giving so much to our local economy, but perhaps I shall do it in another post.

Your Lifestyle – A Top 10 List

Hi! I figured this would be a good way to introduce myself. Basically it’s a list of things that are ‘must haves’ in my life today. Idea and title jacked from Superfuture.

1. Family

Not much explaination needed. Family is the basic foundation of society, yes? We are not the perfect family, but we do okay.

2. Basketball

Flashback, the 1993 NBA finals, Charles Barkley, Kevin Johnson and the Phoenix versus Michael Jordan, Scottie Pippen and the Chicago Bulls. Jordan with his swagger moves, Barkley with his power plays, it was a Wednesday night I think, it wasn’t even a live telecast. But ever since that time, I was hooked to, no, LOVED basketball. If there was any one constant thing in my life, this was it. My interests have come and go and some come back again, but this was one thing that never changed while I was growing up.

Not just limited to watching basketball, I grew up playing the game, I was never and ever will be good at this game, but I’m a decent player. I could probably do better explaining the technical aspects of playing basketball like shooting, defense, running plays,etc. than actually playing in the game.

I’m 25 now and it’s been 15 years, and this will be forever.

3. Sneakers

Playing basketball meant you needed the proper kicks to play. Most people just wore whatever back then, as long as it was ‘rubber shoes’, it was okay. But I saw more than just shoes, I saw great design and a certain connection to the player wearing or endorsing the sneakers. Early years I was enamored by the designs on Reebok shoes, the Shaqnosis worn by Shaq or the Kamikazes that were designed for Shawn Kemp, as a kid unknowingly learning to love how good design affect our lives. Eventually I caught up with Nike and Adidas, with Penny Hardaway rockin’ Zoom Flight 96s and of course, Jordan with his Air Jordans. Later on was the love for the 3 stripes, with great Feet You Wear campaign banned by then-rising stars Kobe Bryant and Antoine Walker.

I always wore mid-level priced kicks back then though, because my parents would never buy me expensive shoes. I would always buy at sales and shoes that were from the previous season, and I would wear ‘em till the soles fell off. It was only recently when I got into the working world that I had the capacity to purchase whatever shoes that I liked and still there was still a certain frugality that was instilled to me that prevented me from going wild with shoe purchases.

From basketball shoes I grew to love casual sneakers as well, and it just grew and grew to what it is now. Whatever pair I have now doesn’t just look good but appeals to whatever personal ideals I have, it’s many different stories in each pair. It’s not just something that conforms to the body but to the person wearing it, to me.

4. Comics

One of the other things I got growing up. This was one of the ways my father used to get me to read. I loved comic books, those Superhero types most of all. It kinda waned off when I grew older, probably due to the fact that I couldn’t afford to follow every issue, but later on I got back to it. Just like when people say it’s meant to be. The internet did help a lot with downloadable scans allowed me to follow the current storyline, and after a while I got back to buying the trade paperbacks and hardbound books as well. As of late, I’ve been buying hardbound books because I figured I would start my own collection and perhaps it could be something I could show my kids later on and hopefully they’ll love it too.

5. Internet

The Internet has been revolutionary, it’s been said a million times and they should keep on saying it. I’ve just learned some much online which I wouldn’t have access to without it. Growing up in a 3rd world country meant being limited to whatever resources available locally, and with people starving and jobless, those resources would be scarce as most funding would be needed for more important matters. I admit that I grew up on the Internet, most of my interests now are influenced someway by what I’ve learned online. From the type of music I listen to, to my personal ideals, even to the shoes I wear. I’m just sick and tired of being satisfied of the things that are just available here, I want something more, I want something different, something that not every Jack walking in the street is wearing, or every Manang is listening to. I want to say something is cool because it is, and not because everybody says it’s cool. The Internet helps me do that.

6. Design

I got into design by way of comic books. Naturally I dreamt of growing up and becoming a comic book artist one day, perhaps in the mold of a Jim Lee. I used to copy a lot of comic book covers and tried to make some of my own characters. Used to think I really had talent, but that kinda fell apart especially when I stopped developing. I can still draw decently but it’s nothing compared to the skills Pros have. But that led the way to me learning to appreciate design on another level, on how a certain line can change a whole scene or how proper placement of shadows can set the mood of the panel, just how color affects a certain piece. Graphic design was a natural next step for me, I did try to self teach myself and was able to decently handle Photoshop, but without the proper education behind me, all plans of doing design just fell off too.

Design will always be an interest, whether it’s a book layout or a great CD cover, I’m always looking out for that something, that spark of inspiration. It’s a great feeling.

7. Glasses/Contact Lenses

I’ve had glasses since grade 3, and been wearing contact lenses since I was in 3rd year high school. I wish I could live without them but for now this is something I must have, unless I want to walk around ‘blind’. I hope that someday I can avail of Lasik and live a life without worrying about my glasses getting broken or losing my contact lens.

8. Music

I’m a pretty late bloomer. While all my life, I was surrounded by The Beatles and The Carpenters playing in my parents’ radio, I never really got into music until I was around 13-14. And even then I only got into mainstream stuff, I was downloading songs since I was around 16-17, so it just grew from downloading songs that was on the Billboards Top 50 singles and discovering songs that were not available locally, and then hearing 2Pac doing ‘California Love’ or Jay-Z’s ‘Can I Get A’ was when I learned about rap and from then I kept listening and researching. I joined an mIRC channel back then where I got to know about the Wu-Tang Clan, and more underground stuff and I was lovin’ it. It was around 2000 and I was probably 7 years late. I moved on to more rock oriented songs while still maintaining interest for hip-hop and r&b ballads, and it just kept expanding, from mainstream alternative rock songs to more emo songs and to indiepop and the list just kept growing and growing. I just like good music, irregardless of genre and no, Akon doesn’t count.

9. Friends

Now these are the people that keep me sane. There will always be a side of me that most people won’t see unless I’m with friends, it’s the Jason who is totally unguarded and relaxed. A place where I can say pretty much whatever I want without any discrimination or fear of acceptance. Like most people I have a few sets or groups of friends but one in particular, the Monztarz, is like family to me, I’ve known most of these people for more than a decade now.

10. Water

I’m a water freak and I probably go to the john more often than most guys. I just have this need to be constantly hydrated and just feeling dryness for just a few moments will make me uneasy. So for me, it’s gotta be H2O for life!

So what’s on your list?